Recognizing grief in animals and how you can help

If you’ve ever wondered whether your animal friends feel grief, they answer is yes! Dogs and cats, like humans, can experience grief for a variety of reasons. The loss of a loved one, change of environment and changes in routine can all impact the well-being of your furry friend. 

Understanding the signs of grief can help you support your cat or dog. Here are a few things to look out for:   

Behavioural changes 

• Decreased appetite: They may show little interest in food, eat less than usual or even skip meals altogether. 

• Increased sleep or lethargy: Sleeping more than usual or appear unusually tired and sluggish. 

• Withdrawal from social interaction: If your loving companion avoids socializing, playing, or interacting with family members, it could be a sign of grief. 

• Excessive vocalization: They may whine, howl, or bark more frequently, expressing their distress. 

• Increased clinginess or aloofness: Some animals become extra clingy, seeking constant comfort, while others might become distant. 

Physical symptoms 

• Weight loss: Due to decreased appetite and changes to their eating habits. 

• Changes in grooming habits: Cats, in particular, may groom themselves less frequently. 

• Digestive issues: Stress and grief can lead to stomach problems and changes in bowel movements. 

Easing the grief 

Regardless of the situation, your furry friend needs you to comfort themto help them feel secure. Ensure your companion animal has a comfortable and quiet place to retreat to when they need a break from interaction. If possible, try to stick to their regular feeding, walking, and playtime schedules. Providing a sense of normalcy and security will help your animal cope with the situation at hand. 

Lots of love 

A little extra love goes a long way. Spend some additional time bonding with your furry friend. Introduce new toys and games to distract and engage your dog or cat. Interactive play can help lift their spirits and reduce stress. Plus, the additional quality time might be good for both of you. 

If you notice that your little friend doesn’t seem to be recovering, consult a veterinarian or an animal behaviourist. There are many in-person and online options to connect with support groups or find an expert in animal grief counseling.  

Remember to be patient and observant with your grieving animal. By providing comfort, maintaining routines, and engaging in stimulating activities, you can help your companion navigate their grief.  

Additional resources 

Visit the Ontario SPCA Blog for additional resources and tips about animal care. 

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